Whether it’s good to be single or married depends on individual preferences, values, and life goals. Both paths have their benefits: Being single: • Freedom to make independent decisions. • Time for personal growth, hobbies, and career. • Opportunity to explore different relationships and experiences. • Flexibility in lifestyle choices. Being married: • Emotional support and companionship. • Shared responsibilities and goals. • Stability in a committed relationship. • Opportunities to build a family and long-term partnership.

Anymore, it's difficult if one's older and dependent on each other financially, and if one is the others caregiver, it gets very complicated.

If you have a mate who really loves you a marriage can really be great.You have a good emotional support and work things out. If you are in a bad marriage you might want to stay single. Many of my friends have been in verble abusive marraige and some phyically.Felt they would have been better not getting married. A person can promise many things to you. But they don'tkeep their promises.

IF the marriage is happy and like BEST FRIENDS - I say better to be married. HOWEVER - I have found this to be very vary rare. Not many happily married people I know.

Both have its pos and cons.

sorry Andrzej..this one got hijacked...but shit happens ...but being fair you got massive response! Edited 06-Jan-25 22:28pm

Married people have support of their better halves that makes it easy to navigate low tides in lives.

Both have their good points and bad points. At least marriage shows a long-term commitment to a relationship and that you are prepared to work to make it successful.

Depending... its better to be single if you have high standards and also you have done anything for yourself... but its also better to be married and intoned with your partner.

Better off to be married and have a partner to share life with. Studies show that you are less lonely and better off financially.

good marriage for support Z& well being

Better off single no loss no pain

I am much happier being single after being in a marriage for half my life with a man who only looked after himself. His friends took priority over his family. He just wanted a servant. Being single is the best thing ever. I can do what I want when I want and there is nothing I need a man for that I can do myself.

I'm much happier being married than I was being single. Marriage has brought stability and security to my life and my husband is my best friend. I think it would be very hard to have to be single without children as you age. I've known a number of single people, especially men, who have taken care of an elderly parent and so they never got married and have no kids to help them now that they are getting up in years.

Depends on people - whether the parties involved can work things out together/reconciliate when there are problems Being single is very hard when it comes to living costs, discrimination etc; but I also know quite a lot of people that are married & they seem to have a very boring life....others are happy.. you just have to find out what you want

I have found that most men tend to be controlling. I have been married twice and would never marry again, even if I wasn't 76 years old.

If you want to be married, you should ask God to find you the right partner. Ask your future or potential spouse a million questions before you tie the knot. If anything doesn't feel right or sound right, call it off. Trust your instincts. I wish I would have.

Who knows?

Man was not meant to be alone which is why Jehovah created Eve as a companion for Adam. You build a life together, raise your children together then your grandchildren. However, after 58 years of marriage I realize there won't always be the 2 of us and as dementia takes more from my husband. I sometimes feel as though I am alone and talking to myself again. I don't feel sorry for myself but I worry about my daughter whose husband is also sliding into dementia. She is somewhat younger than me so it's a tougher road for her.

I was married to a wonderful man for 20years and 6 months, until I sadly lost him to cancer. I still miss him after 11 years.

After 69 years I would say better bY FAR.

We celebrate our 59th this year. It's some thing I like being part of.

My first marriage was a bad one, she only thought of herself .... her way or no way. Then when it came to the split & I started to date another woman there was trouble. Nowadays I'm married to my soul mate & have been for 25 years, we now have 3 children ,who are now adults, and one grandson.... life is great.

Definitely married, in my opinion. I'm alive today because that woman I love has been beside me, fixing my mistakes and changing the resultant wound dressings, propping up my spirits when things looked dark and daily doing it with a calm grace befitting a nursing sister.

I’m looking for a new partner. I want to be married again

I am unfortunately married. I always Believed before hand that Marriage is purely a religious thing and is not necessary to me. People can have a relationship, Marriage, doesn't make it better, it only makes it harder to seperate if it's not working.Edited 06-Jan-25 15:27pm

For me it is better to be married, but this may not be the same for others.

I would dispute all of you claims. maybe iinitially they have the social and emotional support, but today that doesn't seem to last very long. The First Argument today seem to see one or both running home to Mum, Mom. As fr risky behaviour I don't think married couples are less likely to turn to Alcholism (Problem Drinking is the PC way of referring to this scourge) in fact marriage can lead to it. Marriage no longer means that Fidelity is a given. The pubs are full to overflowing with married people - both genders. Being in a good economic place is not guaranteed to married people, there are many millions of brokcen marriages which broke up because one, or sometimes both, get hooked on gambling (Note Governments want and need people tp become addicted because they collect many billions in taxes year in, year out). I think it all depends on the individuals, married or single. I know Couples ans Singles who are very comfortably off and others who struggle.

I think your assumptions about married people is a little off. Perhaps that's why somewhere north of 50% of marriages fail. The basic premise of marriage is that women are property (lots of people still think they are) and that the church had to get it's hooks on you as quickly and completely (by threats of excommunication therefore denying you entry to heaven) by taking sole ownership of the institution. Great relationships don't need the institution of marriage. Once you've fiund "the one" the way you treat each other is the key. Honour, trust, honesty, compassion and compromise are the keys to a great, long lasting, relationship without the baggage and guilt of "marriage."

Romance does not satisfy practical needs.I am much better off married than single

Either- depends who you’re married to

i believe it depends on the individuals. some people are better in relationships and some are meant to be single.

Most marriages I know of recent times are more marriage of convenience than love and romance

There’s no guarantee in life except you make the best company of your own. Relationships fail, financial hardships are common in households, illness can knock on anyone’s door anytime … etc. If you can’t be happy with yourself, no one else can. Your happiness is dependent upon yourself, not others. Once you are a good company to yourself, others would be attracted to you too. Edited 06-Jan-25 13:27pm

Married for sure, the Lord planned it this way and if you believe, he will make it right.

I think it very much depends upon who the spouse is.

Don't know what single would be like after 44 years of a great life with a great man

A bit of both.

Married to the right person

I would have to say getting married was my favorite mistake, It has been 38 years now plenty of ups and downs, but knowing my grandkids has made every second worthwhile,

I was married for 24 years and have been single for the past 8 years and I have to say.... that I would rather be married and have my best friend by my side every day again than to be alone. The thought of starting over and finding someone else that I would want to to spend my life with is so hard.

I have been married for 40 years we have mostly good times and sometimes bad but thats a relationship

I liked being on my own, I travelled when and where I wanted, had relationships with anyone I wanted, the freedom to do just exactly how I pleased. Was a great time.

It depends on the persons involved - I was happily married for 63 years and I still miss my husband who passed away 2 years ago

Marriage is only successfull if two people try to work it out and try their best to be the best version of themselves for each other every single day. Why? because marriage is a commitment. Marriage is not always rainbows and butterflies - it always has its ups and downs. If you haven't find that person that you are willing to be with through light and dark then it is better to stay single.

I'm happily married 50 years in December.

I was with my partner for 25 years 7 months until he passed away and the last 5 years I have been terribly lonely and wish he was still here with me.

Statistically married men live longer than unmarried men. Although some married men say it just seems longer.

Married 44 years you do not get that long for murder.

There is no "better" ,do what you want that makes you happy.

Only if your partner treats you well.

After being married for 50 years I can honestly say I’d rather be single now 😉🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I have lived through a stressful time being married, I think it is better to be single because no law to give over half of what I worked for

I think being single unless you are with the love of your life which I am not. I was with the love of my life many years ago but I was too immature to realise it and then life got in the way and it was too late!

Having been married for so long I have no idea about what it would be like to be single. Well. I do have a bit of an idea. I would be lonely.Edited 06-Jan-25 11:02am

We wife reckons that she would be better off if I was single.

Neither is "better" ... it's simply a personal decision for each individual to make for themselves.

I have not been married yet until my princess stuck in Russia escapes >MIchael

Been single is the best, don’t answer to anyone on what I spend my money on, where I’m going, how long you going to be, what’s for dinner, I do what I want when I want.

Married / relationship but having said that if the worst should happen I doubt I would do it again. Too much water under the bridge

sometimes been married has its benefits but so does been single. I'm looking for some male company now that all the kids have all grown up and left the nest, I guess been a single mum of 7 kids i have had my moments. time has gone by way to fast.

My marriage is the best. If it wasn’t better to be single

Marriage is up to the couple involved, it works for some but not for others, being happy comes from within and we all need some me time

There are benefits and trade offs in both situations.

We are single in a very long relationship, and it works for use one of eatch species

Married.

Been married, divorced, had boyfriends, very happy being single doing what I want to do when I want to do it with my friends.

Married absolutely because you always have some support in what ever life throws your way. Of course there are people who are together and don't get married but they are just as happy as if married. Some say it is just a piece of paper but if some thing happens to the other and you are married transferring things into one name may be easier because there is proof of being the others partner. We are happy and together. A problem shared is a problem halved and then makes problem less daunting. Not that we really have any problems really. We just take life as it comes.

we have been together for 40 years had our ups and downs never marrired and very happy

Single I like doing my own thing. Space is important to me. I like living alone with my fur family.

Iam married and am happy with my choice but to each its their own who am I to say what it best for you

Im married but act like im single and I even sleep in separate rooms

For me, I'm happier being 'alone'. I write 'alone' because I'm still legally married, but, thankfully, I haven't seen him for going on 12 years. I say 'thankfully' because he took everything from me. It's only by the grace of Jehovah God that I recovered, and am living my best life now! In answer to your question, it depends on the married couple. ;-D

Happy single. Don't need a man child to deal with. Have 2 amazing kids, I've travelled the world and got a career. Couldn't imagine travelling and studying while dealing with a man. He would want things his way. I did study while being a mum to one child at that particular time of my life.

It's what is best for you

It's up to the individual. My partner of 24 years passed last year and I have happily labelled myself a spinster, much to the amusement of my family. I have zero interest in another relationship, he blessed me with two sons'. And that's all I need.

What ever makes you happy.Many people live happy fulfilled lives married or single

HAPPILY MARRIED SINCE I WAS 18 YRS. NEXT MONTH WE MAKE 45 YRS. MARRIED...2 ADULTS DAUGHTERS & FIVE BEAUTIFUL GRAND CHILDREN......TILL DEATH DO US PART............

Better to be happily married

I'm coming up 62 years and have 34 grandchildren. We are still together.

Married or single

It would depend on how much of a sharer you are and if you enjoy your independence .Why is living together without a contract a freedom of life option without the label .Individual needs and wants are to be considered and what are the compromises.Be happy with the decision that you make this situation changes constantly.Just make sure children are included in your decisions and talk to them .

This year in August I will have been married for 50 years, I got married at 18years old. And it has been 50 years of happiness.

Hang on,just read a few comments and I am wondering. Is single or married the only options. What about people who have been married,but don't want to be married again. Can't you have some sort of relationship where you can be in a relationship and still retain your autonomy.?

What a stupid assumption. I have been both and both have its ups and downs --- to each his own and neither is better than the other. Did you get programmed at UNI????

After 35 years, I would not like to be single again. Each to their own.Edited 06-Jan-25 07:35am

I made a huge mistake, and it almost cost me my life. Will never do it again.

I was married for 34 years,my wife then passed away 10 years ago.I met my current wife on line and have been with her for 8 years and we are still part as one. I am OLD SCHOOL

I married my husband "til death do us part". He died 30 years ago and I'm still single!

What a load of BS!!! While it is in most of our human genetics to want a partner and to breed, not everyone is programmed the same that's why we are all individuals. Relationships are only ever successful based on the compatibility of 2 individuals. Sooo many relationships fail because they dont talk to each other about things in their life and as for alcohol I know more couples who drink than I know single people who drink. Alcohol is a cheap psychiatrist to dump your problems on. Oh and by the way marriages in general have been on a steep decline for a long time just like religion from where marriage was forced on people so as to not sin. As for economics, there are plenty of single people taking in far more than most couples combined incomes. Sorry but I find your statements very nieve since you don't have to be married to have the benefits of a partner that you elude to above. I'm happy being single, done the long and short term relationships, I don't drink, smoke, do illicit drugs, he'll I don't even drink coffee tea or energy drinks. My Financials are great, good friends and I have a nice comfortable life.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 9 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:10 If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?12 Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broke. I have been married 54 years 55 come April 2025. We are stronger together. Being Single for some however is a personal choice. My eldest grandson is single but he resides in a tiny house on our property,. He works and helps us and his dad, also in a tiny house. We help each other. Grandson is 27 and said he might get married but not yet and maybe if he finds the right person who is committed to a life time of marriage but he is building funds to get property first and working. He does not want to marry and end up in divorce. His brother in law married his sister when he was 34 and they are happy together. They have 4 children. So our grandson is being cautious and not inclined to hasten into marriage. He has not dated and does not believe in sex before marriage. He likes helping us and his sister and family. I know his uncle our eldest did not marry until he was 32 so it is okay to be single until and if you are ready and prepared for a life commitment of being married. Which is a rare thing in today's society but can be done. Depending on the values of the couple. We as a couple drink at times, a glass of wine or brandy but we do not go beyond one drink and always with a meal. I pray daily as does my husband God gives us more years. We are in our twilight years 75 and hubby 76 next month God could grant us 10-20 more years. I know a lot of people living into their 90's and doing well. We just have to be careful and pace ourselves, eat healthy and enjoy life one day at a time. Every day we have now is a gift.

I was single for 58 years and I've been married for 3 years. I love my husband dearly but if I had to do it all over again I would never get married. The limits that marriage has put on my life are ridiculous and I don't mean pub crawling. I go to do something and he's like I'll get that. My poor old body has become weak because he is so afraid I'll hurt myself. He's a good man and a good husband but he doesn't understand that women should do physical stuff too.

not everyone that is single drinks a lot. I believe in the Lord Jesus Christ. I might have an alcohol drink once or twice in a year only one drink on special occasions

I have been single for a lot of years, I have had one marriage, one long term relationship two girls from my marriage two boys from the long-term relationship, they have all grown up now, and they are in their own relationships. I have had a few short-term relationships. As I'm happy being single I think this the way I'm supposed to be

Married for me, although I would never do it again if anything happened to my husband

often companionship is best, be it married or single.

difficult

It is better to do what makes you happy than what makes others happy.

I have been married twice and both did not work for me my second husband was a child molester but I didnt know at the time until my daughter told me when she was 10 years old I kicked him out and he riped me off of everything I had I like to live a single life I am much happier and have a better life by my self

it depends on your lifestyle